For generations, African women have been taught to be quiet, told not to be too loud, too bold, too visible. Decisions have been made for them: about their bodies, their families, and how far they’re allowed to go. I’m Ruby Amondi Okidi, and I am part of the generation that’s changing that.

Born in Kenya, I am a licensed trauma-informed therapist trained at Columbia University, where I earned my Master of Social Work and served as the first African Vice President of the Students’ Union. I am interested in the intersection of mental health, community care, and social medical sciences and was later accepted into Columbia’s Public Health program,

I currently work as a licensed therapist at a state hospital, where I provide therapy and conduct mental health assessments and diagnoses. My clinical work is grounded in cultural sensitivity and trauma-informed care.

I am also the founder of Lorem Counselors in Kenya, a mental health initiative I started during the pandemic to challenge stigma, amplify culturally grounded healing practices, and support communities in need. my need for a clinical focus landed me at Columbia for my masters. I created Healing Out Loud as a safe space where immigrant women come together to talk, dance, learn, and reclaim their power. Whether I’m leading therapy, dance sessions, or public talks, my mission is always the same, make healing accessible and visible.